Offer of Influence

Your messages that influence aren’t heard with ears; they are heard with eyes and ears.

To influence your kids is to make an offer and to have that offer accepted.  There is a choice on both sides of the equation.

What you offer: 

A front row seat to watch your life as the example of your messages.  

How they accept: 

Sharing their life and dreams with an invitation for feedback. 

Your choice:

To allow your kids to actually see into your life—you know, behind the curtain of perfection and under the veil of certainty.

Your kids’ choice: 

To trust that you will actually see them in all their perfect imperfections before you voice your feedback.

 Your messages that influence aren’t heard with ears;

they are heard with eyes and ears.   

Have you chosen to offer your influence?

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Author: Lorraine Esposito

Lorraine Esposito 914-410-7502 Lorraine Esposito is a certified professional life coach, mentor coach, owner of The Center for Coaching Mastery at Westchester Community College in New York, and nationally recognized author of The Peacemaker Parent, Solving Problems for Today, Teaching Independence for a Lifetime, Lorraine is the featured life coach for a popular New York radio station, WFAS 103.9 FM and is in collaboration with and featured blogger for the National Football League and USA Football adding a ‘coach approach’ to coaching youth sports. Lorraine’s client base includes CEO’s in the entertainment industry, White House and Capitol Hill public affairs staff, entrepreneurs, global TED speakers, award winning writers, new coaches just starting out, successful business women between 40 and 55 looking for more out of life, and parents needing a little help making good on their parenting promises. Lorraine’s career matches the diversity in her coaching practices. Starting out in the rural mid-west, Lorraine has owned four small businesses; the first, an automobile repair center, started at age 16. Her corporate experience is mainly in negotiating multimillion dollar contracts as the buyer of domestic in-flight food and beverages for Trans World Airlines and then as a procurement manager for the New York City Transit Authority. Lorraine’s strength has always been creatively finding solutions to even the most complicated goal. In addition, Lorraine’s 30 years as a professional fitness coach continues to add depth to all her endeavors. She has been featured in various print, broadcast, and on-line media and is a public speaker regarding personal leadership to community and school-based audiences. Lorraine lives in New York with her husband and two teenage sons.

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