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Category: You as a parent
There are many roles a person plays in life and all of them have one thing in common– YOU. Though you bring YOU to every role and every goal, HOW you do that may differ. Articles in this category cover issues like:
* Communicating and influencing your child from ages 2 through teen.
* Communication with your child’s other influential adults, such as teachers, coaches, other parents, clergy, etc.
* Leveraging problems or social issues for deeper trust and rapport.
* Understanding the influence all around you, namely parenting peer pressure.
Go ahead, have a look around and be sure to comment when you’ve stumbled upon something thought provoking. Share your experience and opinions so that everyone in the community can learn and get better at influencing our kids.
You’re going to need to bring everything to the table
How about the performance by Eminem and Rhianna on the MTV Movie Awards last night? They performed The Monster; a song that embodies a HUGE concept of life coaching.
Life Coaching ‘Rapped’ Up in Song
Eminem’s monster is his own fear and self-doubt—something familiar to us all. We’ve been told to banish bad thoughts, to ignore them, and to only listen to positive affirmations about ourselves. The problem is that the more we ignore the ‘monsters’, the louder they get.
The trick is to make friends with all your voices – the monsters and the angels. Think of them as party guests. To have a successful party (metaphor for a successful outcome) all your guests need to be welcomed, respected, and paid attention to. All your guests.
One way to respect a ‘monster’ voice is to hear its challenge as a legitimate question, “Who do you think you are?” Consider the question, answer legitimately, and the ‘monster’ no longer disrupts your party. Why? Because its purpose is to make sure you’re prepared to leap—not to prevent you from leaping.
Try as you may to ignore or to drown out fearful thoughts, eventually you’ll need to answer them before they will allow you to move. So, make friends with all of your powerful thoughts. You’re going to need to bring everything to the table, all your experiences, all your creativity, all your hunger if you’re to have what it takes to succeed. Bringing only half—even if it’s the ‘good’ half—won’t be enough.